In the midst of life and stress, we always make time to enjoy ourselves and do fun things together. It’s one of the things we do best as a couple. Today was a trip to the park across the street to play catch. ♥ A few weeks ago we bought ourselves softball gloves and a couple of balls. Today was the perfect day for us … Continue reading Fun with Daddy
The other day I posted about being battle ready with the trustee. Daddy and I walked into a face-to-face meeting with him on Tuesday. I was grounded, calm, cool, collected and incredibly prepared. I walked in with a plan and legal documents and information backing me. I prepared a letter demanding action in areas he’s broken the law with California Probate Codes listed and notifying … Continue reading Hold onto your hat
Quite some time ago Daddy and i bought some gorgeous red bondage rope, my first set of handcuffs (soft red leather) and a leather/fur flogger (purple and black). Early yesterday morning the rope and cuffs had their maiden voyage! While i was showering, Daddy cut a long length of the rope stretching it under the mattress to tie the cuffs to. The flogger was laid … Continue reading Spread Eagle
There is a tipping point in my personality which shifts me from being overwhelmed and stuck into full on battle commander. I’m clear, concise and have the needed motivation to get things done. With everything going on in my life recently, that shift happened over the weekend. I’m grateful and really excited to push my way through another brick wall. Perhaps one day it won’t … Continue reading Ready for Battle
I tried going to be with Daddy a couple hours ago. Rather than toss and turn, keeping him up and making us both miserable, I got up. Sleep will come when it comes. One of the beautiful things about no longer following someone else’s time frame. 😉 I used to get frustrated with my mom when she’d tell me to do this. Nearly impossible to … Continue reading Wide Eyed & Bushy Tailed
I’ve been quiet for a multitude of reasons. Most recently being deathly ill. If you’ve been reading my blog a while, you know that I get horrific sinus infections and bronchitis. Another hit me. This is one of the worst ever. I’d wrapped up a round of Prednisone and thought I was on the mend until the worst cough of my life took hold Saturday. … Continue reading Breathing….
Processing my thoughts and feeling on a public blog was not the route to go in saving or scrapping my marriage. I guess I finally decided to actively use the skill of restraint of pen and tongue. My words would have done damage on many levels based on how hurt and angry I was. Where are we now? Per the title, we’re working it out. … Continue reading Working it out
With all that’s going on right now, I feel it’s best to stop blogging. At least for now. Not everything needs to be shared… and certainly not publicly. As the days wind into each other we find more clarity of what’s going on… who feels what… and what needs we each have. It’s going to be a journey, but not impossible. We’re coming from a … Continue reading Elvis has left the building…
I make no bones about being atheist. There is no god…. at all. Christian or otherwise. There is no hell. If we really wanna get deep, I’ll tell you that none of us really exist and free will is a complete crock of shit. I have a special disdain for Christianity that I don’t experience for any other faith. No matter what branch of Christianity … Continue reading Christianity
There are a number of issues which I am extremely hard on and will not budge. They are deal breakers in the relationship department…. from casual acquaintances through to romantic partners. I base my opinions on education and life experience. This list is probably not exhaustive nor is it in any particular order. Am I judgmental and harsh with a dose of hard-core bitch mixed … Continue reading Deal Breakers
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