I was scrolling through FetLife this morning and saw this question posted in a woman’s group. The original poster shared she’d asked the question in a TG support group online and gotten some really interesting answers and thought she’d ask in an all-inclusive women’s group. I’ve been tumbling this around in my head for several hours now. Come along on the journey with me. Perhaps … Continue reading What makes you feel like a woman?
Seven years ago, I found myself thrown into the world of BDSM with no clue what I was about to see, hear, experience and be willing to try. A flippant comment to a prospective date got a referral to Fetlife before we met. That man changed my life forever in the best ways possible. He’s long gone, but BDSM and kink has become a mainstay … Continue reading Finding new kinks…
It’s a quiet day in the McDaddy household today. No fireworks or big BBQ’s. Daddy’s watching reruns of Andy Griffith on TV. The boys are snuggled up napping in between bursts of hard core puppy smack down. I’ve spent most of the day cleaning house. I started off with a magickal bath ritual to cleanse and protect myself. The bathtub is my very favorite place … Continue reading Happy 4th of July!
.Daddy and i stumbled upon a toy store Friday night hidden in the back of the restaurant parking lot we ate at. i couldn’t resist asking Him if we could make a stop in. Thisice new store was an adventure. We have two kinds of adult stores in our immediate area. The vanilla shop filled with lingerie and basic toys with the kink-lite toys and … Continue reading Toy Shopping
I woke up from a nap yesterday afternoon to Daddy telling me had some bad news for me. I was not even remotely expecting that Roe v. Wade had been overturned! I honestly never thought it would happen. Then again, I never thought Trump had a snowball’s chance in Hell of being elected. I stand in horror once again at what the far right, religious … Continue reading Roe v. Wade Aftershock
I started watching the old black and white Dracula movies with my father when I was around 4. Obviously, I didn’t understand the sexual undertones at that age. I still remember the beautiful women lying in bed wearing gorgeous nightgowns and being taken by surprise by the handsome, yet frightening Count Dracula. Vampire movies and books are still my favorite. The seed of a kink … Continue reading Count Dracula… Oh My!!!
Tomorrow I will be celebrating the summer solstice in the Redwoods with Daddy and the puppies. I’m looking forward to this particular holiday. It’s a fire festival dedicated to the sun, the beginning of the harvest season and abundance among other things. The Goddess I work most closely with, Aine, is the traditional Goddess honored this solstice. Winds of change are blowing in our life … Continue reading Happy Summer Solstice
Roughly 10 years ago I decided I was tired of being grossly overweight and out of shape. I changed my lifestyle drastically. I got active walking 5-8 miles daily, going to the gym almost every day and getting my food plan back on track. I lost and maintained 120 pound weight loss for about 8 years. (I’ve gained 20 back since the pandemic.) I had … Continue reading Yes, I’m Snarky!
A few years ago, i brought up the topic of celebrating Daddy’s Day. As a couple without children and all of our parents gone, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day are open holidays to do with entirely as we wish. In our discussion, we opted to remove all of the traditional meaning from Father’s Day and celebrate His role as my Dominant…. my Daddy. It’s a … Continue reading Daddy’s Day 2022
Today I want to talk about morals and values. We all have them and they’re different for each of us. That’s really OK. The part I want to talk about is when you allow people into your life whose morals and values don’t align with yours. It’s a recipe for disaster. I’m very clear about my morals and expectations. I have exceedingly high standards for … Continue reading Friendship, Values & Red Flags