There is so much talk about aftercare in the BDSM community. For starters, aftercare is something which every sexual person, vanilla and otherwise, has a need or desire for in some form or another. We simply have a neat little term for it. 😉 Not too long ago a young sub asked a group I belong to if aftercare is mandatory. I was surprised by … Continue reading Reflecting on Aftercare
Being pretty is one of those things I really enjoy. I’m a flirt and an attention whore. So the last month and half has been really hard on me! I had an injection of a new asthma medication on November 18th which caused me to immediately break out in eczema all over my FACE!!! It’s been a bit better and a lot worse, but it … Continue reading Frustrated Vanity
The New Year is just around the corner. I can’t wait. Honestly, in all my years I’ve never been so ready for a year to come to a close. lol This year I’m fairly certain most of the world’s population shares my regard. Things are quiet here. Cold! My poor little fingies are icy as I sit here trying to type. Indeed, cold is a … Continue reading Happy Holidays, One and All
I’ve been married 4 times and my pattern for leaving always takes a similar path. Sadly, I’ve started down the path to leaving Stephen. Stephen hasn’t been willing to actively work to get his sex addiction under control. He’s lied to me, his therapist and has continued with his cheating. Cyber sex with other people recently. hundreds of hours looking at pictures, watching porn, searching … Continue reading The Beginning of the End
Things feel out of control in my life right now. The details don’t matter. What does matter is how I’m coping and/or not coping with the stress and overwhelm of emotions. I’ve ridden the wave of denial, trying to accept an insane situation and stuff my feelings about it. I’ve blown up a time or two. I’ve cried. I’ve scrubbed the house top to bottom. … Continue reading Control
Stephen and I have been living together more than 2 years now and I hadn’t met the in-laws. Well, we fixed that this past weekend. I’ve had a number of phone conversations with his brother and spoken briefly with his wife, but pretty much zippo with Stephen’s sister. I was hurt and angry for a long time that she put absolutely no effort into wanting … Continue reading Meeting the In-Laws
Last night I was poking around FetLife and came across a question about who pays on a first date in a power exchange. I had to read all the comments and add my 2 cents. lol If you know me at all you’re not surprised. ;P I was delighted so see the first several comments talk about healthy relationship development and the D/s dynamic being … Continue reading Old Fashioned Values
Daddy has a job interview tonight… at 11:30 pm! He works in the hotel industry, so there is no way i could skip over the obvious teasing points. 😀 i started out calling His interview a “date”. He growled at me, “kitten… it is not!” i just giggled and grinned. “It is with a woman?” His brow furrowed… “Yes.” “See! It’s a date! AND You’re … Continue reading Bratty Banter
I always do the deepest thinking in the bathtub. Probably because I get really quiet and there are no distractions. Now that I’m all squeaky clean and smell like pears I can tell you what I was thinking about. Money! I got a lot of crap last year when the water main burst in my house and I didn’t have $10,000+ on hand to cover … Continue reading Deep Thoughts from the Bathtub
Before Daddy moved out here He told me that He always wears slippers around the house. The pair He had was raggedy and weren’t coming with Him. Being who I am, I dragged my bestie shopping with me and got Him a pair the day He arrived so they’d be ready and waiting. After 2 years of daily wear the slippers I got for Him … Continue reading Christmas Came Early… Again!
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