"I'm not responsible for how you feel"

I walked around for years and years saying this to others and letting others off the hook for being hurtful. I don’t remember the circumstances any longer, they don’t matter, but I do recall the conversation about this saying not being totally true. I told my supervisor that my feelings were hurt by something someone said or did followed by “I’m responsible for how I … Continue reading "I'm not responsible for how you feel"

Struggling to stay focused

I started cleaning house about 8:30 am. A little over 3 hours later and I’ve only gotten the sofa cushions straightened out. lol Well, not only. Just the only task I’ve completed start to finish. The phone rang and it was my brother calling about the house. Not an unpleasant call, but still not particularly fun. As I told him that we’ve hired an attorney … Continue reading Struggling to stay focused

Fort Bragg

Daddy and i got back late Friday afternoon. We had a splendid time! The drive was long and exhausting, but so very beautiful. Redwood trees for miles and miles. Sheep, cows, goats and vineyards stretching for acres. Our hotel was quaint and right off the highway. They’re in the midst of updating all the rooms. Ours was halfway there. No complaints at all. Good service, … Continue reading Fort Bragg