Roughly 10 years ago I decided I was tired of being grossly overweight and out of shape. I changed my lifestyle drastically. I got active walking 5-8 miles daily, going to the gym almost every day and getting my food plan back on track. I lost and maintained 120 pound weight loss for about 8 years. (I’ve gained 20 back since the pandemic.) I had … Continue reading Yes, I’m Snarky!
A few years ago, i brought up the topic of celebrating Daddy’s Day. As a couple without children and all of our parents gone, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day are open holidays to do with entirely as we wish. In our discussion, we opted to remove all of the traditional meaning from Father’s Day and celebrate His role as my Dominant…. my Daddy. It’s a … Continue reading Daddy’s Day 2022
Today I want to talk about morals and values. We all have them and they’re different for each of us. That’s really OK. The part I want to talk about is when you allow people into your life whose morals and values don’t align with yours. It’s a recipe for disaster. I’m very clear about my morals and expectations. I have exceedingly high standards for … Continue reading Friendship, Values & Red Flags
I was 18 or 19 when I realized that I’m a little. I didn’t have that word or an understand of what it would all mean for me. I just knew there’s a part of me that would never grow up. Men have recognized it in me for as long as I can remember. I was about 23 the first time a man called me … Continue reading Being a little & Age Play
Big local headlines recently about the Arch Bishop of San Francisco denying Nancy Pelosi communion because she publicly supports abortion rights. Ms. Pelosi wasn’t chastised based on her personal beliefs, rather because she’s a woman in power exercising her voice for all women! The way women’s rights are being attacked by the Christian right, it wouldn’t surprise me if a new edition of The Witches … Continue reading Catholicism v. Women
I’ve always had lots of friends. I’ve never been what one would call “popular”, but I always had lots of friends. I was never lost for a friend to see a movie with or whatever activity I was in the mood for. On the rare occasion everyone was busy, I have been content with my own company for many, many years. Marrying into an abusive … Continue reading Friendship
My brain has been busy today. Not unlike every other day, except full of things I want and need to get done. I’m feeling a tinge of frustration at not being able to get back to normal activity as quickly as I wish. Thank the Sidhe, I’m no longer an invalid! I have floors to wash, a vegetable garden to plant, grocery shopping to do … Continue reading kitten Rambles
Nothing brings out the little in me like my birthday! Sometime around April i start getting excited and reminding everyone around me that i have a birthday coming up. As it draws near i can hardly contain myself!!! In my little heart the entire month of June is my birthday, though i’m not one of those outwardly obnoxious people who force it on others 3 … Continue reading 10 Days & Counting!
Over the last 6 months or so, I’ve been diving deeper into witchcraft, paganism and the old ways. My garden is filled with gorgeous blossoms and an outdoor altar to the Good Neighbors (aka: the Faeries). I’ve dedicated pots and pans for brewing potions, making spell candles, soaps and bath salts. My bookcase is rapidly filling with a variety of books as I decipher where … Continue reading Witchy little Spell
As always, I’m astounded by the people who think they are qualified to be sex educators. As sexual creatures, we can all share our experience, tips and tricks and information we have gleaned from reputable sources. A Master’s Degree in sex education is required to actually educate others and know all the ins and outs (pun intended) of sexuality and all that goes with it. … Continue reading BDSM Dates Back to Ancient Mesopotamia