DAY 18: Very often the stereotype of submission is that the submissive person loses the ability to have an opinion. While that clearly isn’t true except in the absolute rarest of occasions, how does communication factor into your submission and how do you communicate your desires and needs? i disagree that a sub loses the ability to have an opinion at any time. A submissive’s brain … Continue reading Submission: Day 18
DAY 17: What does trust mean to you in the context of submission? Trust in the context of BDSM and submission has an even deeper meaning to me than in the ordinary context. As a sub, i give Daddy control over my physical and emotional safety in our day-to-day lives and in our sexual play. i must trust that He’s going to be there. i trust … Continue reading Submission: Day 17
DAY 15: Has your submission evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you? If not (or if you are just starting out), how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future? Submission is a living part of who i am. It grows and changes depending on what’s going on in my life and who i’m with. i have a strong, alpha … Continue reading Submission: Day 15
Day 14: Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission? Do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar? Daddy and i are both atheists, so no… religion does not play a role in our D/s dynamic. i’m very familiar with the concept! i have personal experience which guides my … Continue reading Submission: Day 14
Day 13: Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time He wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? Not really. It’s something i offer informally, though it’s not what Daddy asks of me or would ever require. He values my comfort too much. He views treating me like an actual “slave” or “fucktoy” as degrading. i … Continue reading Submission: Day 13
Day 12: Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general? i’m familiar with the concept of financial submission, yes. It’s not part of my submission. Daddy … Continue reading Submission: Day 12
Day 8: Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? No. Spanking is part of our kinky play as a reward for being good and because we both enjoy it. Daddy does not believe in punishment and would never use corporeal punishment of any kind in disciplining me. Why not? Daddy’s philosophy and style of dominating is based on … Continue reading Submission: Day 8
Day 6: What do you feel are the roots of your submission? Do you think it has something to do with childhood? Is it a relationship management tool as in the practice of domestic discipline? Is it a sexual thrill or something else? This question demands i dig a little deeper and perhaps be more honest than i have been with myself before…. *ugh* Yeah, … Continue reading Submission: Day 6
Day 5: Have you been or are you in a Dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? i am currently owned and collared by my Daddy, who is also my husband. Daddy is my first face-to-face, real time D/s relationship. That alone changes the way … Continue reading Submission: Day 5
Day 4: Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? i am naturally submissive, despite having occasional dominant desires. Aside from erotica, i do not act on my switch desires at any time. Daddy and i don’t have a DD (domestic discipline) relationship. We have a 24/7 … Continue reading Submission: Day 4
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