I learned some really hard life lessons in my last marriage. I was in an abusive relationship. Of course the abuse was bad and changed me in dramatic ways. I was forced to grow and change in the process of leaving the relationship and recovering from it. One of the hardest things I had to face was that my friends and loved ones saw what … Continue reading Life Lessons
The other day a guy I knew on Facebook posted a meme which hit every single one of my feminist points. He defended that I don’t get to decide what’s right and wrong. He defended his position that a version of this post with a woman looking disgusted is acceptable because he thinks it’s ok. I have some things to say about that! Could I … Continue reading Freedom of speech doesn’t make it right
Relationships are hard! Damn they’re hard! The good ones are the ones where the good days outweigh the ones that are a struggle. I ranted earlier about Facebook. Truth be told, the rant wasn’t about the comments themselves or even social media at large. The rant was pent up anger at my husband for unresolved hurts triggered once again by a similar situation. There were … Continue reading Marriage is Hard Work!