I reserve the right to end relationships which no longer work for me regardless of how it impacts the other person. It took me 4 decades to able to do that. I’m beyond proud of myself for it and support others in doing the same thing! I lived in a family where love and belonging were 100% conditional upon being “good” and towing the line, … Continue reading Closing Doors
I wrote this not long before I the fateful night I met Daddy. A note to my future Daddy… I’m a little with the tenderest of hearts,eager to please. Be gentle, pleaseKind words and affection will bring you a happy, blooming babygirl. Guide me with sweetness. Explain why I have displeased you or a rule is in place should I ask. I’m NOT bratty to … Continue reading End of my journey down memory lane today
How are things between Daddy and me, you might be wondering. Let me tell ya. The therapist Daddy reached out to for help with his addiction has been wonderful. We’re yet to have our first session (next week, I think). How can she be great then? Her team put together a series of videos covering all sorts of topics around sex, love and porn addiction. … Continue reading Life Updates
I’ve been quiet for a multitude of reasons. Most recently being deathly ill. If you’ve been reading my blog a while, you know that I get horrific sinus infections and bronchitis. Another hit me. This is one of the worst ever. I’d wrapped up a round of Prednisone and thought I was on the mend until the worst cough of my life took hold Saturday. … Continue reading Breathing….
Of course i love being little! What little doesn’t love relaxing into little space and letting go? Daddy will handle everything! Yesterday morning i had a reminder of just how bad it sucks to be big… and all by myself. i had some irregular swelling in one of my legs with discoloration and cooler to the touch than the other one. Given a history of … Continue reading Being Big Sucks Sometimes
Ladies, how many times have you been hanging out with your girlfriends and one of them starts talking about the new guys she’s seeing and you hear the deadly phrase, “He has so much potential”? If you’re talking about the potential in a man, you’re saying he’s a fixer upper! I have 2 pieces of sound advice for the women out there who are still … Continue reading He Has So Much Potential!
I struggled for the longest time to find the willingness and importance in doing this. Rants, bitch sessions, cussing people out can really feel good… in the moment. I’m far from saying that I don’t still CHOOSE to let a few people have an honest piece of my mind in the moment. A saint, I am not! For today, I am going to talk about … Continue reading Restraint of Pen & Tongue
1. Do you think taking a break in a relationship works? Have you taken a break? Why do you say it worked or did not work? I’ve taken breaks in relationships in the past. They don’t work!!! It’s always been postponing the inevitable breakup. 2. What is your ideal “break” in a relationship: None of the below. I don’t do “breaks” in relationships.a. we stay … Continue reading TMI Tuesday
When I first joined Facebook I did what everyone did…. look up old friends, classmates, exs, co-workers, distant relatives. Curiosity. Hey, I wonder whatever happened to (blank)? I stumbled across my very first boyfriend. Let’s call him, Todd. He gave me a paragraph update on his life. Brief, polite. Ending with “My wife and I don’t allow friends with ex’s in our relationship”. I was … Continue reading Ex’s are ex’s for a reason!
Relationships are hard! Damn they’re hard! The good ones are the ones where the good days outweigh the ones that are a struggle. I ranted earlier about Facebook. Truth be told, the rant wasn’t about the comments themselves or even social media at large. The rant was pent up anger at my husband for unresolved hurts triggered once again by a similar situation. There were … Continue reading Marriage is Hard Work!