Bedtime is my favorite time of day. Daddy and i snuggle up and do our tuck in routine. We also giggle and tell stories. It’s the one time of day that we’re sure to have some silly laughter. True to being a little, i ask lots of questions. Why Daddy? What if, Daddy? Last night i hit on one that made Daddy’s night! i asked … Continue reading Bedtime Stories with Daddy
Daddy and i have a townhouse and we’re crunched between neighbors on both sides. We have front and back patios which are decent sized, but far from large. i love being outside whether it’s hiking in the woods or sipping my morning coffee in the backyard. Getting the backyard space comfortable has been on my to-do list since i first moved in a few years … Continue reading my little garden
Daddy’s been home with me just about 2 weeks now. His job started running into financial troubles from loss of business and bounced His paycheck. They never did rectify it fully. He decided at that point it was time to leave. Unemployment has been granted, so financial stress is low. For the first time in a long time we get to spend time together!! We’ve … Continue reading Having Daddy Home
Thank you for the kind words yesterday. 🙂 Daddy’s surgery went extremely smoothly. The enormous stone is gone and He’s on the mend. He’s a bit sore, but i could see the difference in Him even by the time we went to bed last night. i foresee a quick recovery for Daddy~Monstah. YAYYYY!!!!! Grumpy woke me up wayyyy too early this morning. i think it … Continue reading Daddy’s surgery and random thoughts
I just don’t get it! The whole concept of marriage is committing to one person. Why get married if you want to have polyamorous relationships or sleep with other people? We live in an age when marriage is no longer the norm. Living together is perfectly acceptable. Shared housing/roommates is extremely common so even living in a poly situation wouldn’t look all that odd from … Continue reading Open Marriages
The last couple of weeks have been incredibly hard!! On top of our home being in a constant state of disarray with the struggle of getting the kitchen put in after the water main burst back in July, fights and struggles with the trustee on my house…. we were evacuated for nearly a week with the threat of losing our home and everything we own. … Continue reading Love & Marriage
Every couple has that one fight they have over and over. OK… not all, but many. Ours came up again tonight. I’m not going to get into the details because, frankly, they don’t matter. What matters is that I’m really hurt. I’m sitting here seriously contemplating if my husband and I should stay married. The issue which comes up is huge and really painful. I … Continue reading Marriage is hard work!
Gotta say, it’s been a Hell of a day!!! I woke up in such a good mood this morning. Things felt manageable and like life was going back to normal. Then I got out of bed. LMAO Well… not that fast, pretty damn quickly things shifted really bad. After a few hours, I’m pretty much back on track to things feeling ok again. I haven’t … Continue reading I married a Saint! St. Stephen of grouchy kittens.
When I first joined Facebook I did what everyone did…. look up old friends, classmates, exs, co-workers, distant relatives. Curiosity. Hey, I wonder whatever happened to (blank)? I stumbled across my very first boyfriend. Let’s call him, Todd. He gave me a paragraph update on his life. Brief, polite. Ending with “My wife and I don’t allow friends with ex’s in our relationship”. I was … Continue reading Ex’s are ex’s for a reason!
As I sit here in a darkened house with fans going to take the edge off this 100* day, I can’t help but think about how we’ll be living in New England this time next year. Crisp weather, layered clothing, apple cider, hot cocoa… waiting on my first snow. My husband has experienced more 100* days this summer in Northern California than in his entire … Continue reading Heatwave