If you’ve been reading my blog for any length of time you know that we’ve been plagued by issues with our house for about 2 years now. Bad trustee, struggle with lawyers to deal with trustee, water main burst, flooding, battling the insurance company, no kitchen for over a year, no floors, no baseboards…. the list goes on and on. It felt undoable and never … Continue reading Staying Put
Before Daddy moved out to California we had an appointment at the courthouse set for October 31, 2018. That was just a few days after his arrival. Due to paperwork snafus we had to cancel and get married another day. The more we talked about it the more complicated it got. Financing a wedding and all the other stuff people worry about kept us from … Continue reading 2nd Anniversary
I have never understood why being married more than once is disgraceful and reason to be judged, but having a series of live in, monogamous relationships is somehow more socially acceptable. In my experience you are judged for two things in regards to marriage. The first is being married and divorced more than once. A second marriage is more acceptable now, but you go into … Continue reading Serial Monogamy
We’ve been fighting together to save our marriage. After the last discovery of his online shit show hard lines were drawn. The immutable lines which may not be crossed, boundaries around respect and how to begin rebuilding trust. The most honest of feelings and experiences are no longer hidden in the corners to be tip toed around. To be honest, most of the time it’s … Continue reading Daddy & Life Updates
Things feel out of control in my life right now. The details don’t matter. What does matter is how I’m coping and/or not coping with the stress and overwhelm of emotions. I’ve ridden the wave of denial, trying to accept an insane situation and stuff my feelings about it. I’ve blown up a time or two. I’ve cried. I’ve scrubbed the house top to bottom. … Continue reading Control
Daddy had an interview late yesterday afternoon. By the time He got home there was a job offer waiting for Him in His email. Gooo Daddy!!!! i’m crazy proud of Him. It’s a job He wants. That makes it even better that He’s going back to work now. It’s been so good having Him home. i’ve gotten spoiled. Being totally honest, it’ll be a bit … Continue reading Back to “Normal”
Yesterday was the start of Daddy’s therapy. It was a joint session where we each shared our perspectives on what’s going on and where we want to go. To be honest, talking about the issues doesn’t hurt or bother me. It gets them out in the open so they can be dealt with. We’re only as sick as our secrets. The hard part? Seeing Daddy … Continue reading
The kitchen remodel is halfway done. The last time i was there we had half our cabinets installed. Daddy stopped by yesterday and they’re ALL IN!!!! Now for the counter tops and getting our appliances hooked back up again. Just a couple more days. Over the last few months we’ve been redecorating our home. New sofas, throw rugs, dining room furniture. Yesterday we opted to … Continue reading Our house
I’ve been quiet for a multitude of reasons. Most recently being deathly ill. If you’ve been reading my blog a while, you know that I get horrific sinus infections and bronchitis. Another hit me. This is one of the worst ever. I’d wrapped up a round of Prednisone and thought I was on the mend until the worst cough of my life took hold Saturday. … Continue reading Breathing….
One step at a time when there is massive hurt in a relationship. We both have individual therapy sessions set up to start dealing with the issues at hand. Stephen starts next week and I’m the first week of August. It was an interesting experience telling the triage therapist that I need someone who is really comfortable talking about BDSM and kink with part of … Continue reading Moving Forward
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