i’d only been on Fetlife about 24 hours when i had my first exchange with a female slave. i was shy and had no idea what to expect commenting on another’s photos. i commented on one of her photos telling her how lovely she is. Part of what made her so beautiful was the elegance and propriety she exhibited. It’s hard to put words to. … Continue reading Chatting with a slave
The last couple days have been incredibly emotional with Daddy doing a fair amount of mop off after phone calls with my brother, C. Today He took the reigns and went in Master mode in the real world dealing with my brother. A huge sigh of relief rushed over me as i no longer had to hold it together and have Him patch me up … Continue reading Master in the Real World
TPE (Total Power Exchange) is the ultimate level of Dominance and submission there is. i will be writing from the submissive stance, giving my position in my D/s relationship. As the word total implies, it’s giving control of every part of your life to the care of your Dominant. Far more than the clothing you wear, who you speak to and where you go, the … Continue reading A few thoughts on TPE
Daddy had me pick out a collar for our first wedding anniversary a few weeks ago. It arrived today! (Our anniversary is 7 February.) When i checked the mail and saw the box by the door, i started jumping up & down squealing, “It’s here! It’s here, Daddy!”. He stopped what He was doing to join me in opening it. The box was taped so … Continue reading It’s here!!!
In the months before Daddy and i met in person and began our full time journey, i had the strongest desire to sit at His feet as He went about normal tasks. It was one of those things i’d been ordered to do before and couldn’t understand why i’d want to. Obedience to an order and desiring something are worlds apart. From the first time … Continue reading Sitting at Daddy’s feet
DD/lg is where Daddy and i found a nice foundation to build our daily lives together when we transitioned from long distance to full time and married. Now that we are back on track with His health enabling our play to return *wicked grin*, we’re starting the journey of expanding our kinky play AND going deeper into the M/s component of our relationship. There’s most … Continue reading Going deeper
Mistress Ruffianne was thinking about Lavendar Skies again. Lavendar was a taudry kitten with ample breasts and wet pussycat. Mistress walked over to the window and reflected on her violent surroundings. She had always loved it at The Kink Factory with its well-used whipping pole. It was a place that encouraged her tendency to feel lustful. Then she saw something in the distance, or rather … Continue reading Taudry Lavendar Skies
Everyone has a different stance on the use of capitalization when writing within and about their D/s relationship. What i’ve discovered over time is that something so simple as using upper case letters when talking to or about Daddy and lower case about myself helps me remember my place as His submissive. It also helps to keep my thoughts on submission and my service to … Continue reading Respect and remembering my place
For the longest time i’ve been wanting Daddy to put an actual collar on me. He will be making an intricate leather collar for me when He has time and our home is set up with space for Him to do so. Today He gave me the go ahead to choose one for the int rum!!! Yay!!! You can’t see it, but i’m giddy and … Continue reading Collar!
i’ve been thinking a bit about my in-laws lately. i’ve never met them. Daddy & i had a quiet, tiny wedding in our living room one Thursday evening without much fanfare. We knew all along it was going to happen, but exactly when wasn’t planned. Things kept getting in the way and one day i looked at Him and said, “What about today?” A few … Continue reading In-Laws & Kink