I reserve the right to end relationships which no longer work for me regardless of how it impacts the other person. It took me 4 decades to able to do that. I’m beyond proud of myself for it and support others in doing the same thing! I lived in a family where love and belonging were 100% conditional upon being “good” and towing the line, … Continue reading Closing Doors
There has been a slew of things happen in the last 8+ months that just add to the feeling of things being out of control. Each one worse than the last. The mounting stress is killing both of us. For the moment, I can only speak for myself. It’s my moment of clarity after all. This isn’t the first time in my life that I’ve … Continue reading Moment of Clarity
There have been many times in my life that i’ve held my breath and jumped in head first for what i know will be better in the long run. Today, i start that journey again. This time, i’m asking Daddy to trust, too. It’s not easy, but we’re doing it. From the moment my mom died leaving me the house in a trust it’s been … Continue reading 1, 2, 3… JUMP!
What is it about human nature that we’ll ride whatever shitty situation we’re in until the wheels fall off and the train crashes in an epic disaster derailing our lives? Seriously?!?! i’m aware that not everyone does this, but there are certainly enough of us that it’s worth asking the question. i’m not the only one! lol i had an eye opening conversation with a … Continue reading Letting Go