There is a divide I see among kinksters about public kink centered around other peoples consent. I’m whole heartedly on the side of it being a personal preference. I do agree that there are limits to what kinky activities are acceptable in public, but I hold vanilla couples and sex to the same standards. We have laws around sex and nudity for many, many reasons. … Continue reading Public Kink: Consent or Preference?
I’m growing into a wise crone at this stage of my life. I may not like to admit it, but I have a lot of years and many experiences tucked under my belt. Observations come with age. This observation is about the eagerness of those learning something new. I’m going to tell you a story to get to my point. It seems easiest that way. … Continue reading Thoughts on Learning
For ease of writing, I will be using Dom as a gender neutral term. There is no list of requirements to be a Dom or a sub. There are some common traits for each, but that’s about where it ends. I’ve read far too many posts about fake Doms, bad subs, true Doms and true subs. I’m really tired of it!! Let’s start by talking … Continue reading Dom(me) and sub shaming
WARNING: This post contains material which may trigger readers related to predatory behavior, cannibalism and incest. For those of you who have wonderful experiences on Fetlife, I envy you! Truly. Not all of my experiences were bad… obviously! I met Daddy on Fetlife and went on to marry Him!!!! ♥ I had enough really bad experiences that it was time to go. The story I’m … Continue reading Fetlife Scum!
i read minnie’s post this morning about shame and kink. Made me think about my struggle in finding my little…. more like accepting that part of myself. Thought i’d share some of that now. Check out minnie’s post and share some love. 🙂 Thanks for the inspiration. ♥ https://hisminnie.com/2020/02/18/an-after-school-special-to-reduce-shame/ Being little is a core part of who i am, how i function in the world, … Continue reading Being little
In my career it was imperative that I know where my biases lie. I was in a position where I worked closely, counseling people of all types who were in a psychological crisis. In order to do my job, be kind and help them create and follow goals they wanted, I needed to be able to set my opinions and feelings aside. Sometimes it was … Continue reading A Moment to Reflect