Friendship, Values & Red Flags

Today I want to talk about morals and values. We all have them and they’re different for each of us. That’s really OK. The part I want to talk about is when you allow people into your life whose morals and values don’t align with yours. It’s a recipe for disaster. I’m very clear about my morals and expectations. I have exceedingly high standards for … Continue reading Friendship, Values & Red Flags

Blunt isn’t always bad

So many people have the expectation that others will be gentle with their feelings and pussy foot around an issue. There’s also an expectation many people have that everything will be handled in private. I’m not wired that way. It’s not a bad thing. The same supervisor that went through the hurt feelings aren’t always your fault alone routine with me, also had a similar … Continue reading Blunt isn’t always bad

Ex’s are ex’s for a reason!

When I first joined Facebook I did what everyone did…. look up old friends, classmates, exs, co-workers, distant relatives. Curiosity. Hey, I wonder whatever happened to (blank)? I stumbled across my very first boyfriend. Let’s call him, Todd. He gave me a paragraph update on his life. Brief, polite. Ending with “My wife and I don’t allow friends with ex’s in our relationship”. I was … Continue reading Ex’s are ex’s for a reason!

Sweet Distraction!

Today has been a shitshow of epic proportions! I’ve put on my Domme suit and handled business in the only way some people cooperate with… sheer force! I got done what I needed to… at least a beginning. I now have an idea of what I’m looking at and it’s bad. Really bad!!! The journey has just begun, but at least it’s begun. It’s always … Continue reading Sweet Distraction!

As the heat breaks

I’m sitting on the sofa curled up like a cat with sweat dripping down the back of my legs and pooling in the bend of my knees. Feels awful! The position is comfy, my favorite. Country ribs are simmering on the stove in a kitten’s kitchen special spice blend. Smells so good! Can’t wait to dig in. When will Daddy wake up? *giggling* Master bathroom … Continue reading As the heat breaks