We picked Grumpy up at 5pm yesterday. Surgery went swimmingly well. Within a couple hours he was eating and doing his business where he’s supposed to. He was still a bit groggy last night and just cuddled in my arms. This morning he jumped off the bed, heaven help me! He was off and down the stairs to meet Daddy at the door, tail wagging, … Continue reading Relaxing Wednesday Morning
I finally have some good updates to share on my house situation. After seeing my brothers and that drama, I was given a referral to a trust attorney who is going to help me/us. We met with him this Monday. Got great information!! He sent us home to weigh our options and decide what we want to do given the choices we have. There are … Continue reading The House- Finally some good news
It wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be. It was actually very much how I remember things being for years. C pragmatic and nice (while being a cock sucker) and L silent, seething with anger until he started accusing me of stealing from the trust once again. Overall, I stayed out of the way and let Daddy handle things. Man-to-man is … Continue reading Seeing my family…
It’s Friday and my Daddy is off!! ♥ It’s been forever since we’ve had any kind of normal weekend day off together. His company Holiday party is tonight. We’ll make the obligatory appearance. Who knows, it might actually be enjoyable? *giggling* I’ve always hated company parties. We had a nice date night last night. Chinese food hit the spot in all kinds of fun ways. … Continue reading Good Morning!
The world came crashing in today and I fucking gave up. Daddy’s surgery is scheduled for the 3rd with a week off work. He had more appointments about the surgery this afternoon. The stress of life in general has been bogging me down, plus the new stress of Daddy being not ok. Got a letter from the Trustee on my home today threatening legal action … Continue reading Emotional Hangover
I grew up an only child. My half siblings were 13 – 19 years older and not around much for most of my life. We never lived together sharing the sibling experience. I also never had aunts and uncles, cousins or grandparents around. Most of my life it was just me and mom… except for holidays. My wants and needs got put on the back … Continue reading Why I love NO FAMILY holidays
This is a topic near and dear to my heart. I happen to come from an extremely dysfunctional family. Alcoholism, drug addiction, every form of abuse, generations of divorce, and mental illness run through all lines of my family tree. I’m the second generation to cut all ties with my family because they’re not good for me. My mom was the first. She taught me … Continue reading Family Isn’t About Blood
I just stumbled across this on Facebook and it feels relevant today. Continue reading Surprise!
It’s Wednesday again, Daddy’s day off. He went to work last night exhausted. i hate to see Him pushing Himself that way. This morning He didn’t unwind before bed, He just climbed in next to me and was out. There’s no waking Daddy unless the world is coming to an end in our immediate neighborhood! While Daddy sleeps, i have some kitten time. i see … Continue reading While Daddy Sleeps