The Beginning of the End

I’ve been married 4 times and my pattern for leaving always takes a similar path. Sadly, I’ve started down the path to leaving Stephen. Stephen hasn’t been willing to actively work to get his sex addiction under control. He’s lied to me, his therapist and has continued with his cheating. Cyber sex with other people recently. hundreds of hours looking at pictures, watching porn, searching … Continue reading The Beginning of the End

“I’m not responsible for how you feel”

I walked around for years and years saying this to others and letting others off the hook for being hurtful. I don’t remember the circumstances any longer, they don’t matter, but I do recall the conversation about this saying not being totally true. I told my supervisor that my feelings were hurt by something someone said or did followed by “I’m responsible for how I … Continue reading “I’m not responsible for how you feel”