Public Kink: Consent or Preference?

There is a divide I see among kinksters about public kink centered around other peoples consent. I’m whole heartedly on the side of it being a personal preference. I do agree that there are limits to what kinky activities are acceptable in public, but I hold vanilla couples and sex to the same standards. We have laws around sex and nudity for many, many reasons. … Continue reading Public Kink: Consent or Preference?


How do i start this piece? i’m not talking about consent between partners, rather social consent. i’ve heard lots of people use “consent” as the reason to follow vanilla dress codes in public. The people around you didn’t consent to your dress or activity. i call BULLSHIT!!! Let me be clear here, i do not go out in public and act sexually inappropriately. That’s not … Continue reading Consent