Collaring and ownership mean different things to different people. Every dynamic is different! i’ll start by telling you what it means to me and what it looks like in my relationship with Daddy. When i first entered the lifestyle i was taught that collaring a sub was the same level commitment as getting married. It’s a long term, serious commitment and not to be jumped … Continue reading Collaring and Ownership
Daddy had me pick out a collar for our first wedding anniversary a few weeks ago. It arrived today! (Our anniversary is 7 February.) When i checked the mail and saw the box by the door, i started jumping up & down squealing, “It’s here! It’s here, Daddy!”. He stopped what He was doing to join me in opening it. The box was taped so … Continue reading It’s here!!!
For the longest time i’ve been wanting Daddy to put an actual collar on me. He will be making an intricate leather collar for me when He has time and our home is set up with space for Him to do so. Today He gave me the go ahead to choose one for the int rum!!! Yay!!! You can’t see it, but i’m giddy and … Continue reading Collar!
My husband is my MASTER. I am HIS owned & collared submissive. Making passes at an owned submissive without the express permission of her Master is a serious breach of BDSM protocol. It extends beyond the social norms of hitting on another mans wife. Disrespecting her in any way is directly disrespecting her Master. She is His property and a reflection of Him. Being disrespectful … Continue reading BDSM Protocol Reminder
As you know, i was up at the crack of dawn. i started cleaning house around 8:30. Didn’t get much done, but it was nice time spent with Daddy. ♥ In the course of futzing around the kitchen, i remembered there was meat in the fridge that needed to be packaged in portions and frozen. Darn! i didn’t have another big Ziplock freezer bag for … Continue reading Tritip for Breakfast?
Ownership goes far deeper than an outward sign or symbol… it’s burned in my heart with the love and devotion i have for Daddy. Wearing a collar, bracelet or any other symbol of my ownership serve as a reminder keeping me submissive. Continue reading Always Owned
i am always looking for sweet little gifts for Daddy. 🙂 Makes me HAPPY!!!! When Daddy moved to California, i got Him a special keyring. It has a small silver tag with “Daddy” engraved on one side and the date of my collaring on the other. Attached to the keyring is also a small ornamental key. Tonight i was teasing Him and ran across this … Continue reading Daddy & kitten
This week has been hard. It’s felt like a century passed in the last few days. Daddy and i had a fight from the stress… and we rarely so much as disagree beyond what we can find humor in. Exhaustion has over taken us both on a few occasions. Even in the midst of hard life days, we’ve found time to maintain our Daddy/babygirl relationship. … Continue reading Daddy’s little one
We were dancing cheek-to-cheek in our hotel room after a romantic dinner last July when Daddy started kissing me and pinned me against the wall, looked deep in my eyes and proclaimed, “you belong to ME”. my lip started to quiver and i couldn’t look into His eyes for fear of crying. i was overwhelmed with love. He’d said the words before, but never with … Continue reading The Beauty of Ownership
Late last night i looked over at Daddy as we watched TV and asked, “Leash soon, Daddy? It’s been a long time…” He said what He does so often, “Soon, kitten… soon.” i was disappointed, but respectful. “i understand, Daddy.” Knowing His little girl, He asked if i’d noticed He put it away earlier in the day when we’d had company. i shook my head, … Continue reading Leash soon, Daddy?