Yesterday I had a man request to be my submissive. It went horribly wrong on his part. Let me tell you why… I am a human being, not a kink dispenser! If you want an immediate relationship or feel it’s appropriate to ask for sexual favors without taking time to get to know me, HIRE A PROFESSIONAL DOMME! No means no. No, I won’t be … Continue reading So, you want to be My submissive?
I reserve the right to end relationships which no longer work for me regardless of how it impacts the other person. It took me 4 decades to able to do that. I’m beyond proud of myself for it and support others in doing the same thing! I lived in a family where love and belonging were 100% conditional upon being “good” and towing the line, … Continue reading Closing Doors
I’m a social, chatty person and will pretty much always be at least a little social with a driver. It’s polite. I’m not the Driving Ms Daisy type of passenger where I can’t be bothered to be polite. There have been many times that I’ve wished I’d not been socail at all in taxis and with Uber drivers. Today was the worst offender EVER! I … Continue reading Uber Driver TMI
I learned some really hard life lessons in my last marriage. I was in an abusive relationship. Of course the abuse was bad and changed me in dramatic ways. I was forced to grow and change in the process of leaving the relationship and recovering from it. One of the hardest things I had to face was that my friends and loved ones saw what … Continue reading Life Lessons
I walked around for years and years saying this to others and letting others off the hook for being hurtful. I don’t remember the circumstances any longer, they don’t matter, but I do recall the conversation about this saying not being totally true. I told my supervisor that my feelings were hurt by something someone said or did followed by “I’m responsible for how I … Continue reading “I’m not responsible for how you feel”
Jack Collier @ https://jackcollier7.com/2019/11/10/not-so-well/ has been unwilling to acknowledge my boundaries which have been clearly laid out on numerous occasions that I am MARRIED, have a solid marriage and want no contact with him on any level due to his refusal or inability to follow my boundaries. He’s been told by my husband to stop interacting with me and leave me alone. Today, he made … Continue reading Just STOP!!!!
Every couple has that one fight they have over and over. OK… not all, but many. Ours came up again tonight. I’m not going to get into the details because, frankly, they don’t matter. What matters is that I’m really hurt. I’m sitting here seriously contemplating if my husband and I should stay married. The issue which comes up is huge and really painful. I … Continue reading Marriage is hard work!
When I first joined Facebook I did what everyone did…. look up old friends, classmates, exs, co-workers, distant relatives. Curiosity. Hey, I wonder whatever happened to (blank)? I stumbled across my very first boyfriend. Let’s call him, Todd. He gave me a paragraph update on his life. Brief, polite. Ending with “My wife and I don’t allow friends with ex’s in our relationship”. I was … Continue reading Ex’s are ex’s for a reason!
There are slogans and sayings we’ve all heard. Think, think, think. Keep it simple stupid. Measure twice cut once. If you don’t know what to do, do nothing. Think before you speak. We all know these sayings because they have value and meaning behind them. They’re not random ideas. Continue reading Think, think, think!
This is a topic near and dear to my heart. I happen to come from an extremely dysfunctional family. Alcoholism, drug addiction, every form of abuse, generations of divorce, and mental illness run through all lines of my family tree. I’m the second generation to cut all ties with my family because they’re not good for me. My mom was the first. She taught me … Continue reading Family Isn’t About Blood
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