Own Your Shit

One of my biggest pet peeves is people who don’t own up to their crap! I’m the first to admit that I’m pretty judgmental. With my mother it’d be impossible for me not to have some degree of bitchy judgment. I own that. I’m also aware that I really like to be right. Perhaps not my best qualities, but I’m aware of them and honest about them.

It bugs the crap out of me when I hear people rant about those exact same qualities while engaging in them themselves!! I just want to point out their flaws and be a cunty bitch. Most of the time I choose not to because it’s simply not worth it. It’s an issue of OWN YOUR SHIT!!!!

With the advent of the internet hosting social media, blogging, YouTube plus self publishing there is a format for everyone to express themselves publicly and proclaim to be an expert on every subject imaginable. Just because we put ourselves out there as an expert doesn’t mean we are!!! Self aggrandizement runs rampant in our society these days. Differing opinions aren’t necessarily wrong and aren’t always opinions. You just may not know all there is to know on a given subject you’ve claimed expertise in. Once again… OWN YOUR SHIT!!!

Each time we go on a rant about other people and hey they do things we’re being judgmental. Like my post right now. I’m judging everyone that judges without owning that’s what they’re doing. It pisses me off. Get off your cross and take responsibility for being bitchy. That’s what adults do.

7 thoughts on “Own Your Shit

  1. Omg I love you. I own my bitchiness but it takes a lot these days to provoke it. However I need to work on listening better and listening not to respond right away but to really hear what is being said. I can be mean. I can be nasty. And I will always admit when I am wrong. But if I am right I must also make sure one knows that too. Just tell me to shut it. LOL I figure I am constantly changing and if I don’t own up to my own shit how can I expect T to do the same? I actually have discovered that I like finding out what flaws I have that need to be worked on but the working on the doing of them at times is not spectacular. Hope your evening is going well. 🙂

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    1. Yes, exactly!!! I like knowing where I can grow and learn in just about every area of my life. There’s a term for that… Ego Strength. Being confident enough in ones self to be willing to take negative feedback and reflect on it without losing your shit. I’ve been told many times in my life I have this.

      Love that you’re teaching T by example! ♥ I find you more and more wonderful with each exchange. So glad we stumbled across one another. 🙂

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      1. I did not realize there was an actual term for it. The last time I had outward help via constructive criticism. I stewed for a little bit but then realized it was so stupid to be upset. So trying to learn to accept that nicely. Otherwise I get flashbacks to passed actions and I cringe determined to not do that.
        Now though I have a co-worker I would like to strangle so maybe I need to work on that next. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😘😘🤗

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      2. Giggle There are more people than not I’d like to strangle, or at best stear clear of. 🙂 I’m getting less and less tolerant as I get older. Stupidity ranking high on my list of intolerances. *cheesy grin*

        It’s raining here. Time for another cup of hot tea. Cheers!

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