Fellas, take note… there’s a big difference between looking at a beautiful, sexy woman and leering. The first is a compliment. It’s OK to take notice. It’s flattering. I dress in way that makes most men look. Staring and leering cross into the territory of being uncomfortable!!
I’m gonna be really honest here. I’m used to being looked at and hit on. It’s a routine occurance. Every time Daddy and I go out together there’s at least one man who crosses the line to putting Daddy on guard to protect me. It’s not him being over protective or possessive. It’s got everything to do with other men not having manners and knowing when looking turns into being disrespectful and creepy.
Daddy and I were out running lots of errands today. There was a guy that couldn’t keep his eyes to himself. I’m talking the kind of staring that you just can’t get away from. The creepy guys every woman knows about. He made me feel so uncomfortable that I switched places with Daddy putting distance and my husband between this creep and me. When we swapped spots, I asked Daddy to handle the guy if he didn’t give it a rest.
Creepy isn’t just unsettling, it’s threatening! There’s a legal term for it: Sexual Harrassment.
This is an area where my feminism comes out strongly!!! No matter what a woman looks like or how she dresses, it’s not a reason to be sleazy and disrespectful! Lots of guys need to learn some respect and self control.