DAY 22: Can you feel submissive without a dominant partner? If so, how does your submission express itself? If not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings?
i don’t experience submissive feelings without a Dominant partner. They are dependent on each other for me.
What i do experience with or without a partner is being little. The fun side of being little is easy to do on my own. i engage in activities which are little and pleasurable for me on that level. The hard side of being little is when i’m sick or afraid and i’m without a partner. i’ve learned to sooth myself with all of my safe little things. Curl up in my big chair with my puppy with my favoritest foods and movies in my jammies with my blankie.
Being little without Daddy isn’t as satisfying as with, but i can make do.